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Visiting Baby Faith

Saturday, July 10th, 2010

A few days ago, I dropped by the hospital to visit Xiao Xia (Baby Faith). She was out of intensive care, but still pretty tired, so she was taking a nap.Since her surgery, Julie from Mifan Mamas and Mary, whom I’m proud to say is a member of our Shanghai Guild, have been staying with her round the clock. They say that her color is much better now and she is breathing far easier than when she arrived. Also, she has already gained half a kilo — which she needs, as she only weighs a bit more than 5 kils (11 or so pounds) despite the fact that she is around a year old. She has lovely long fingers and toes — I bet she is going to be a tall girl.

We covered her in a Guild blanket that I had brought along from one of our extended family of donors (in London!).After a while, she woke up, had a drink, stretched out her arms and legs to greet the day, and tried to look around.Mary was dying to pick her up, but of course can’t on account of her incision and the fact that she is still connected by tubes. But very soon now, she will be going home with Julie to recover for a while. She still has a lot ahead of her — gaining weight, cataract surgery, and of course learning to walk! But thank goodness the worst is now behind her.

Baby Faith Post-Op

Saturday, July 3rd, 2010

She’s doing great!!

She came through her surgery with flying colors on Tuesday and is recovering well, I believe still in intensive care. When I have photos, I will be sure to share them. Meanwhile, keep your prayers and good wishes coming for her.

I know you were worried and I’m sorry for the delay. I was on a spectacular trip with Heart to Heart Shanghai, the group that arranged and sponsored her surgery, to Jiangsu Province, where we visited schools to donate books and to check in on rural children who have already had heart surgery. Stay tuned — you’ll hear more!

Baby Faith

Monday, June 28th, 2010

From time to time, I have written about the Shanghai Guild, a group of women here in Shanghai who meet weekly in my house to knit for charity — a group which has now spread out as our friends and alumnae move about the world. Well for a little while now, I have felt a bit guilty because I have been holding onto a sum of money that we have raised through selling our stuff. Too little to compete with large gifts, yet too much to consider insignificant. So I’ve been holding and thinking.

Our opportunity to do something significant came yesterday. Mifan (Rice) Mamas, an organization that supplies food and other necessities to an orphanage not too far away in Anhui Province, sent out an urgent plea. One of their little girls, called Xiao Xia and known in English as Baby Faith, had arrived in Shanghai last Thursday for medical treatment and had been diagnosed with a serious heart ailment.  Almost as if by chance, one of Mifan Mamas’ founders connected with the founder of Heart to Heart Shanghai, another organization we try to help, which raises funds for heart surgery for kids in need. Heart to Heart (yes, you recognize the name — I went with them on a trip I wrote about back earlier in the spring) jumped into action and got her examined yesterday morning by their heart specialists, agreed to pay half the costs of surgery, and scheduled Baby Faith for her critical operation tomorrow morning at 8 am.

25,000 RMB remained to be raised, which is where our Guild’s opportunity came in. Our coffers were holding 13,000, which I immediately pledged, and I sent out an email to our greater membership. Lo and behold, as of this evening, we have 22,000 in hand (about $3200). I am blown away by the generosity of my women friends, and feel so excited and lucky to help give this baby girl a second chance.

As luck has it, I’ll be rolling up the road in a bus with Heart to Heart tomorrow morning, on another trip to another place in Anhui. Baby Faith’s surgery is scheduled for Tuesday, 8:00 am Shanghai time. (That’s 8:00 pm Monday to those of you on the east coast.) I’ll be praying for her, and I hope you’ll think about her, too, wherever you are.

And if, by chance, you want to read about Mifan Mamas or Heart to Heart Shanghai, look for links on the website of our Guild, www.shanghaiguild.com.

And the Kids!

Sunday, March 28th, 2010

All told, in three days in Jiangxi Province, we visited two schools, the You Shan Primary School in Zhen Tou Town and the You Ting Primary School in Fu Chun Town. Of course the trip was all about seeing those kids — shy,curious,

mischievous,

polite (just about any child I gave something to immediately replied, xie xie, ayi, “thank you, auntie,”) attentive to their schoolwork (and maybe near-sighted?),

she's copying characters that are way more complicated than any I can write, sigh!

playful and rambunctious.

Their classrooms are crowded,as are their dormitory rooms. (More than 150 primary students live at one school during the week, as their village homes are too far to return to daily.)

boys' dorm room, taken with flash -- actually much darker

And how about these next three? They’re the ones who have already come to Shanghai for heart surgery and recovered.

This girl, shown with Dr. Chen, her heart surgeon, is a little nervous — but who wouldn’t be, if a bus pulled up in front of your house and a group of strangers jumped out and paraded in to see you, flashing cameras as they went?

Here’s the second child we visited, shown with Dr. Chen and Christine Cullen, the Director of Heart to Heart — and his beaming mom.And here’s a quiet 18-year-old, shown with his family, who solemnly brewed us all tea and then talked with Dr. Chen about his hopes and plans for college.I could — and obviously have — go on and on. But I’m going to leave you now with these images.

Back to the Books

Saturday, March 27th, 2010

At both schools we visited, we took along clothing (including lots of hats and scarves from my knitting group, the Shanghai Guild), blankets, and toys for the principal and teachers to distribute. But the main purpose was to follow up on monetary donations to purchase a library — in each case, the school’s first.. (A library can be donated for 15,000 rmb, or roughly US$2,000.)

Heart to Heart asks the schools to make the purchases for a good reason — they know what they can use. They want to avoid making direct donations that turn out not to be of use. (For example, check out these dusty computers and desks,which I photographed through a broken window,Apparently they were donated some time ago. “We don’t have anyone to teach how to use them,” the principal said.

Back to the books. There were some amusing titlesbut apparently a great variety ranging from Chinese classicsto tales from overseas.Christine Cullen, Heart to Heart’s founder and director, told of a visit to another school, where a student was giving a thank you speech, and then broke away from her text to exclaim in excitement, “The principal says that during our break we can come in and read the books as much as we want!”

Still, there is a lot to be desired. In each school, when we saw the actual library, the books were laid out on desktops.Shelving would be a great addition.

And fixing the broken windows would be a help, not to mention making sure that the roof over the books doesn’t leak.

ceiling over corridor outside library

Lao Wai

Saturday, March 27th, 2010

At the first school we visited, we foreign guests were ushered into a meeting room for greetings, a warm cup of tea, and for short speeches of thanks.

Zhen Tou Town, You Shan Primary School

We also took a peek at the books acquired with the money we were bearing (donated by Marks and Spencer, which has a big store in Shanghai now).I lingered at the back of the room and finally poked my head outside to see what was going on. A group of kids in a classroom down the way was doing the same thing. Lao wai! they shrieked when they saw me, and darted back inside.Not surprising — lao wai (老外)means “foreigner,” and they don’t usually see many of us. But in this case, it had an extra ironic twist: while may have a connotation of respect, it literally means “old.” And  there were quite a few old foreigners hanging around these kids — right over their heads. (Look to the right and up.)

Newton and Edison, I believe.

Elsewhere, at another school, we saw other important figures on the wall, including some foreigners, only some of whom I recognized:Here’s the one I wonder about — is this really Stalin?

Who is this a portrait o

Chinese readers, I’m using a lifeline on this one!

A Whatchamacallit

Friday, March 26th, 2010

What is that thing Kathy is sitting on, and why is she smiling, you ask.

Now erase that thought. I’ll get off and give you a turn to look at it.

Yep, under that grill and ash, there are live coals. Pretty nifty, eh?

I knew what it was, because I’d seen them variously put to use the night before. Here’s a shopkeeper using one to toast her hands and feet:

So, it had been pouring rain all day long, really grim

You Shan Primary School courtyard

so our little band couldn’t help getting damp and chilled as we slogged from house to house, village to village, school to school.

So naturally, when we stopped for dinner and were practically shaking, the staff brought in a couple of whatchamacallits and we took turns sitting on them.

We liked them so much, we decided to buy some. I got a pair and, all told, our group bought twenty (!) in fact. After all, we knew that once we’d delivered all our stuff, there would be plenty of room on the bus. Can you imagine the conversation between our minder, who called the guy who supplied them?

“Liu, this is Zhang. Listen, I’ve got an emergency on my hands! These foreigners… Lord only knows what they’re thinking. Anyhow, can you possibly round me up a dozen or so bun-warmers? Yeah, I know, we make combs and fans and all sorts of carved geegaws, and what do they want? Yeah, I know, they’re too big for them and will probably fall off — look, just do your best, ok?”

“Whoa…, no problem! I’ll get on the horn with my no-good brother-in-law and tell him to bring all the ones he’s got over at the house. He owes me anyhow, remember how he got plastered and embarrassed me last month drinking all the bai jiu? What’d you tell them they’d have to pay? 100 rmb each?!? Whoohoo, a vacation in sunny Sanya is looking good!”

Sure enough, a guy showed up within the hour (after 7:00 pm, still raining) with a pile of the things on the back of a pickup truck.

So here’s one of my bun warmers, back home on the front stoop in Shanghai:

Well it seemed like a really, really good idea at the time.

PS: I was with Heart to Heart Shanghai, an amazing organization that brings kids in need of heart surgery to Shanghai and pays for their surgery. We were in rural Jiangxi Province to check up on some kids and their families post-surgery and bring them supplies… also books to schools that haven’t previously had any. If there’s anything you’d like to see or know about that — like photos of the adorable kids and their families, or the hillsides blooming with rapeseed flowers among the tea bushes –  you just let me know.

Then and Now

Friday, March 19th, 2010

Here’s one measure of change in Shanghai. A bit more than a year ago, to my delight, I learned about the yarn market, an assembly of rickety stalls where skeins of yarn lay piled on tables or was hand-cranked onto spindles, while kids scampered underfoot, and cats and dogs curled up in comfort. There you could bargain for very fine cashmere, wool, and, on occasion, luxurious bamboo yarns, or top up your collection of wooden needles or comb through buttons in baskets.

I returned last week. Same place, but apparently there have been a few changes. Here’s the new and improved yarn market.

Even the yarn-winders are using electric winders now:

So the yarn market has now gone the way of the Xiangyang fake market and the old Dongjiadu Lu fabric market.  I am honestly glad to see that there is protection from the weather (but it will still be cold in winter) and that there is now a sprinkler system in the ceiling. But I have been here so long now  (closing in on six years) that, more and more often, I feel nostalgic for old Shanghai.

Imagine how the Shanghainese feel.

In the Lane, Bells are Ringing

Friday, December 25th, 2009

After a wonderful German Christmas Eve dinner with our friends last night, I woke up early and heard the sound of bells jingling. Could it be???? I threw open the balcony door and looked out into the foggy dawn — no snow glistening in this lane — to see the recycling man with cardboard piled on his cart, clanging away on his bell. I went back to bed.

At 8:00 the phone rang. Family calling with greetings? No, it was the yogurt delivery lady. It may be Christmas, but it’s still Friday, and we had forgotten all about her. (Apparently she had been ringing the doorbell for some time.)  John zipped down and collected the week’s supply of jars of the world’s best yogurt. Yum, Christmas breakfast!

It’s a good thing I remembered to cancel the drycleaning delivery, or there wouldn’t be peace at all in our house today, let alone on earth!

9:30 — time to go downstairs and see if the adult youngsters are stirring.Wait! The doorbell is ringing again! It’s a woman I’ve never seen before, and she is waving her knitting project at me. It seems she needs more yarn to finish it… okay let’s traipse up to the tinzijian to see if I can match her color. Ok now, I am going to wake Alex and Christopher. It’s time to open our gifts and go to the Filipino Catholic English-language service and then pick up the rest of the fixings to make Christmas dinner.

To our family and friends far and wide, best wishes from Shanghai for a very Merry Christmas!Xmas1

Drumroll, please

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

Ok, I am back in one piece. Or all of me in one place.

And I have an announcement. Drumroll, please. Ta da! Announcing the new Shanghai Guild website, www.shanghaiguild.com. Rush to check it out! Here is everything you have ever wanted to know about the activities of the wonderful group of women whom I host at my house to knit for charity. See the photos of us in action! This has been a long time coming and come it has, thanks to many, many lunches with the ever-patient Elizabeth Bacon who took it upon herself to teach me how to update the site. Ain’t it pretty?

Now if only I could figure out how to link from the blog…. or maybe I don’t need the blog any more! (Ha, you won’t get me to go quietly.) I’ll take that on as soon as my eyes recover from all those pesky html thingies.